Wait, wait wait. What if someone tells her about you and it poisons her marriage and future happiness, wouldn't that be exactly what you don't want?

She is safely out of my reach. She has found her true love, her soul is merged together with her new husband's now and their common faith will sustain that bond, which is admittedly something a bit difficult to wrap your head around if you don't know her, but she is very serious about that.